The burnout
Today I regretfully inform you of a missed opportunity. My brother, father, Teta, friends and I decided to spend Friday evening at a concert featuring Faris Karam — a popular Lebanese singer. Throughout the concert, I couldn’t help but dwell on the aspects of the concert that reminded me of the problems I see in Lebanon.
How unorganized the country is…
The vanity of some people in this country…
How fake some people are in this country…
See picture above.
How racist some people are in this country… The concert began with a speech from one of the ministers about how the problems in Lebanon — from the lack of electricity to the quality of healthcare — should be blamed on the Syrian refugees. As a result, we should continue to support the army’s efforts to rid the country of these ‘pests.’
As I ruminated about how upset I was (the xenophobic speech at the beginning was the ultimate warning sign), I happened to miss out on some of the things that could have reminded me how wonderful this country is.
How the culture is preserved through the music…
How the concert united the entire country for one night…
I’ll admit: it could have been a great night. Had I been at this concert at the beginning of my trip, I would have been one of those people standing on my chair, singing to words I didn’t understand, and running to the stage when the entire audience started dancing dabke.
However, I didn’t. The reality is that I am burned out. In this last week with my brother and father, I have realized how much I miss the security of America — the familiarity, the comfort, the freedom. This last week will be difficult. But it took a night like Friday night to make me realize that I only have a week left. I need to enjoy it. I love this culture, these people too much not to — after all, they are mine.
Ever had a complete physical burnout?
Last winter, I decided to start training for a half-marathon in Vermont. My training schedule called for a ten mile run, and so my running buddy chose a trail he thought would be appropriate. We started our run about 3:00 in the afternoon to get whatever warmth we could from the frigid sunlight. It was still the hardest thing of my life. He took me up mountains, across freezing rivers, down icy hillsides. By the time I got back to my dorm, I have the strength to take off my sweat-frozen clothing, nuzzle into my comforters, and grab my cellphone. WIth shaking fingers, I dialed my mom’s number. “Mom, I just finished ten miles in freakin’ Vermont winter. Call me beast.”
Probably not that great of an accomplishment, but it was pretty cool from my perspective 😀